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Restaurant.com FAIL!

In Food, Money, coupons on November 21, 2009 at 12:15 am

So a few weeks ago, my mom bought some Restaurant.com “gift certificates” for me. It seemed like a good deal – $25 gift certificates for just $2. Not bad, right? Well, that is until you read the fine print and actually go to one of their “participating” restaurants…

Twain's Restaurant[Flickr/Twain]

MAJOR FAIL #1
To sum up my dining experience this evening in a nutshell, the restaurant did NOT accept my Restaurant.com gift certificate. In fact, so many customers before me have tried to redeem their coupons that the restaurant has had to post a sign on their front door stating that they would not honor them. What the heck, Restaurant.com?! Seems like you’re just arbitrarily listing any restaurant that you can think of on your site as a participant. What a MAJOR FAIL!

MAJOR FAIL #2
Coincidentally, my mom decided to try and use her Restaurant.com coupon this evening as well. While she had a completely different experience, it was equally as disappointing as my experience.

Rather than telling you the story, let me break it down with some simple math:

Here’s the premise: The Restaurant.com gift certificate for this restaurant requires the user to spend at least $50 and provide an %18 minimum gratuity on the pre-discounted meal.

Cost of the meal: $58
Cost of the gift certificate: $2
Tip: $10
Tax: $5
Discount: $25
Total: $50

In the words of Mastercard, this is “priceless” and ridiculously ironic if you ask me. Once again, MAJOR FAIL!

CONCLUSION
Now believe you me, I have no intention of ever using Restaurant.com again and I am pretty sure my mom feels the same way,  but don’t just take my word for it. Here’s what some other more prominent bloggers have to say:

  • Consumerist – Chris Walters calls it “shady” and warns consumers to watch out for a no good, sneaky third-party vendor – Shopping Essentials – that wants $15 from you every month in exchange for a non-existent service.
  • WiseBread – As much as I like and respect WiseBread, I can’t help but wonder if Xin Liu and her readers have been force feed Restaurant.com Kool-Aid, ’cause the feedback is overwhelmingly positive and supportive.

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The Spender and The Saver

In Money, Wedding on November 8, 2009 at 11:28 pm

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A spender and a saver – would you say this is a match made in heaven or a future divorce statistic? You’d think that when it comes to saving and spending, birds of the same mindset would flock together. Not really – say some personal finance experts – in fact, polar opposites tend to attract when it comes to money and love.

But what if you’re a spender when it comes to some things (like Blu Rays or vacations) and a saver when it comes to other things (like starting a retirement fund). Given this, could it be that as individuals, we’re all a mix of both? What is it about a relationship that makes one person take on the role of the saver while the other becomes the spender?

In most cultures, men have taken on the role of the saver since they were the breadwinners of their families while women were the spenders as the homemakers. Not the case in Japan. While men are typically the breadwinners, they almost always hand over their paychecks to their wives to manage. The thinking there is that women will put the interest of the family first while men have the tendency to squander their money.

Cultures aside, in this day and age, are money management roles assumed or are they assigned?

Many personal finance gurus recommend engaged couples to have a conversation about money before they actually get married. This way, they can work out their financial differences before a horrible spat leads to splitsville. While it doesn’t surprise me that money is a leading cause of divorce, I really wonder how many people actually have this conversation.

Ron Lieber at The New York Times wrote a good column for Your Money last week about the money talks to have before marriage. In a nutshell, here are the things that couples should go over during these conversations:

  • Ancestry: Discuss how your partner’s parents managed their money. This will give you a good idea about how he/she does or will relate to money.
  • Credit: It’s now or never – find out what your partner’s credit score is. You’ll either have a big sigh of relief or cry…better to do it now then when you’re trying to buy your first home together.
  • Control: Figure out how will you manage your money as a couple. Will the responsibility fall on one person or will both of you have a hand in the bills? Will you keep private accounts or combine everything together?
  • Affluence: Know if your financial goals are aligned – in other words, “just how rich do [you and your partner] want to be one day” and how will you get there?

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Dang It, I’m Infected!

In Cats, Life on November 4, 2009 at 11:03 pm

I went on vacation and learned that the phrase, “what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas,” does not apply to flu-like symptoms. BTW, those flu-like symptoms have since been confirmed to be the actual flu. While quarantining myself for the past few days, I am often asked, “is it swine flu?” Well, to be honest, I don’t know. My doctor says that he wouldn’t be able to tell without a test, but that it didn’t matter since the treatment (Tamiflu) works for both (which was later prescribed to me). So I guess I’m covered for this flu season at least.

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Anyhow, here the highlights:

  • Tamiflu, Sold Out? The first Walgreens I went to couldn’t fill my prescription because they were out of Tamiflu. Since I didn’t want to wait until they got their next shipment, I had to go home and look up two other locations to call and see who had it in stock. Once that was taken care of and the prescription was transferred over, I headed over to pick it up. Too bad I got the two addresses mixed up and went to the wrong Walgreens at first. Doh!
  • Fever, What Fever? It never fails. Every time I’m sick with a fever, my fever mysteriously goes away the minute a nurse or doctor takes my temperature. It’s like the freaking Michigan J. Frog (aka, the WB frog mascot that only sings when there isn’t an audience). At the same time, it really makes me question whether there’s something wrong with my thermometer since it claimed that my temperature was ranging between 100.8 and 103.8, ’cause I sure didn’t feel that hot.
  • Theraflu’s Motto Should Be: “Sweat Out The Flu In You” I must have drunk at least six packs of Theraflu over the last 3 days. Each dose was like taking a trip to a sauna ’cause I would start to sweat like a menopausal woman with a hot flash (more so in my sleep than during any other time). But hey, it did work, so no complaints here.
  • Cats Can Get Swine Flu Now this last one is just plain un-be-liv-a-ble! While I may not know for sure which flu I have, I was disturbed to learn today that a cat in Iowa was reported to have contracted swine flu. That means that my little Dolby is at high risk since he’s been hanging out with me in sick bay for the past four days. I’ll have to keep an eye out for any suspicious symptoms. Dangnabbit!

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I Heart Coupons: Sephora

In Money, Shopping, coupons on October 27, 2009 at 11:56 pm

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So to bring a little structure to this blog, I’ve decided to start a new section called “I Heart Coupons.” To start things off, here’s a little something for beauty mavens everywhere – Sephora is having their friends & family sale (e.g., everything is 20% off) from now until Mon., 11/2. Here’s the coupon code: FF2009

In using this code and making my first online purchase at Sephora.com, I got a pretty good deal. I bought two full price items (basics which I consider to be must haves) and a few three sale items (things that I wouldn’t buy at full price). While I won’t line list everything that I bought, here are my favorite buys:

Cargo OneBase
(This is a great foundation/concealer for people like me who just needs some light cover up. It has also been a pain in the ass to find. I must have went to at least 4 different Sephora stores and NONE of them had my shade in stock. Unbelievable!)
Original Price = $26.00
W/Discount = $20.08

Sephora Illuminating Tweezers
(Since I lost my good tweezers, I’ve been in the market for a new one. I like the fact that this one lights up, we’ll see if it’s any good though.)
Original Price = $22.00
Sale Price = $11.00
W/Discount = $8.80 (^_^)

In total, I saved $11.70, got free shipping (which is typically over $5) by ordering more than $50 worth of merchandise and got three free samples with my order. IMHO, I thought it was pretty good deal even if Sephora is just a tad bit pricier than Target. My only gripe is that my purchases are not showing up on my Beauty Insider account – I want my points damn it! Gurr…I’m gonna have to call customer services to see what’s up, what a pain!

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For My Dear Dimmy

In Cats, Life on October 26, 2009 at 11:12 pm

This post is dedicated to my dear Dimmy. She passed away suddenly on October 9, 2009. We don’t know the cause of death, but we suspect that it was a heart attack. She was only four years old, so it was very shocking to lose her and also very sad. We gave her a country burial that weekend. DL, Dolby (my other cat) and I miss her a lot. I hope she rests in peace.

Dimmy Cat

What I miss the most is this: Every night, when I was ready to go to bed (e.g., computer and lights off), she would hop onto the bed and curl up next to me. While it would appear that she wanted to sleep next to me, she was actually getting into position to ask for a massage. I’d humor her for a few minutes and then hide my hands under the blankets to tell her, “No more, I’m going to bed!”

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iPhone Shopping List

In Shopping on October 8, 2009 at 10:58 pm

I’ve been a member of the ibrokedownandgotaniphone club since July. Since then, I have (1) ruined the ear phones, (2) oh so brilliantly blocked off the ear speaker with a protective piece of plastic and (3) left ugly stains on said protective piece of plastic. So now, I can only talk on my iPhone via speakerphone.

My problem is that I am lazy, too lazy to buy the replacements that I need (even if all I need to do is make a few clicks on a Web site); however, if I ever get over it…this is what I am going to get:

With this cutie-patutie, I hope to NEVER get my headphones in knots when I toss them in my bag…well, at least I’ll be able to pull out something cute.

Supposedly, the InvisibleShield is an almost indestructible piece of plastic that will protect an iPhone from even the most clumsiest person….we’ll see about that. For thing, it should be a lot better than the makeshift screen condom that I have on my iPhone right now.

And lastly, a new cover (for when I am off duty and don’t need to look professional)…something loud and obnoxiously cute. Nothing else will do.

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Lenox Dinnerware: Won’t You Be Mine?

In Food, Wedding on October 8, 2009 at 4:01 am

*Rolls Dice*
“Come on, baby! Mama needs some new fine china!”

Last night, I was moseying around the Internet when I came across this contest being hosted by The Budget Savvy Bride and Lenox. In exchange for a blog post, tweet, Facebook fandom or a comment, one lucky bride-to-be or would-be-bride (who’s preemptively planning their wedding) can win Lenox’s Confection collection. Retailing at $172.00, this set includes a dinner plate, salad plate, bread and butter plate, teacup and saucer.

The contest asks the following question: What would I do with a new place setting of fine china? Well, for starters, I would be able to host a lovely tea party that’s decked out in true Martha Stewart DIY detailing….as of now, most meals at my house are an exercise at fending for yourself or a buffet line with miss-matched plates and flatware.

Now, as much as I would like to win said dinning set, I am a little confused by the contest’s description and rules. Am I competing for one set (e.g., a setting for one person) or for a complete set (e.g., settings for at least two people, preferably four)? ‘Cause, if the former, that would be really lame — because that would mean that I am forced to buy another set so that my dinner plates matched. How do I have a tea party if I only have one set? I’d need to spend some serious cash so that I have plates and cups for at least four people. ‘Come on now, Lenox marketing department….a blogging contest should not be used as a coupon (e.g, marketing device to get people to shop and buy).

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Red Guard Wedding Photos

In Intrigue, News, Wedding on September 27, 2009 at 1:07 pm

I don’t know about this one, or maybe I am not “Chinese” enough to appreciate it, but dressing up like red guards for your wedding photos?


[Photo via Meiguoxing/Flickr]

From what I’ve read, there is a lot of nostalgia for the Cultural Revolution among young people in China today. It’s gone to a new extreme that people are choosing to dress up in the green Mao coats, hats and little red books for themed shots in their studio wedding sessions.

If you’re unfamiliar with these studio wedding photos, they’re basically glamour shots where couples will dress up in different types of wedding attire including Western white wedding gowns, qipaos, kimonos, etc. A lot of money is spent on this while day-of photos are taking with regular cameras and plain-clothes engagement photos are not done.

I may do the Chinese style wedding studio shots, if I go back to China and I’m married or about to get married – it’s really not too expensive (compared to U.S. standards), but I think I’ll pass on the red guard shots. Any thoughts?

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College Alumni Membership: What is it good for?

In Life, Money on September 26, 2009 at 12:20 am

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Photo via Ju_li_a/Flickr]

When I graduated from college, I decide to become a lifetime member of my alma mater’s alumni association. I figured that paying $250 upfront at the recent grad rate would eventually pay for itself (since an annual membership would cost about $10-25 a year). In hindsight, I am not so sure if this was the smartest financial decision that I’ve ever made.
Subnote: What I paid was is a bargain compared to the current price of membership, which is $500 for a lifetime membership while an annual membership is now $20-$50 per year.
You see, the only “benefits” that I’ve taken advantage of since graduating three years ago was getting discount at the student store for campus swag and the receiving the alumni magazine. T_T

After re-discovering of the member’s discount and services page this week, I’ve decided that I need to pay more attention and put my alumni status to better financial use. My first order of business will be to reinstating my library card. FYI, this was my original reason for buying the membership, but in all honesty, I haven’t stepped foot in that building since I left….but that’s gonna change!

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Chinese Wedding Bloggers: Where Are You?

In Life, Wedding on September 25, 2009 at 12:26 am

I’ve known for a long time that I want to have a more traditional Chinese wedding and would also love to incorporate those cool/detailed/quirky personal touches that are in vogue today. Problem is, the wedding blogs that provide the best tips and tricks for those cool/detailed/quirky personal touches are rather lacking in content for ethnic weddings.

Double Happiness Cupcake
[Photo via bakingarts/Flickr]

Sure, there’s the occasional “real wedding” recap of a Chinese or Chinese hybrid wedding…but there’s not really a whole lot of nifty ideas floating around. You could count the fancy Chinese to-go boxes, fortune cookies, paper lanterns and decorative chopsticks, but here’s the problem — Chinese to-go boxes and fortune cookies are about as Chinese as Kentucky Fried Chicken (read Jennifer 8. Lee’s book, The Fortune Cookie Chronicles, if you’ve missed that memo). Plus, most of those paper lanterns and decorative chopsticks are more Japanese in style…which is kind of a no-no if you’re going for a more traditional Chinese wedding. I mean come on, just because we’re all Asian doesn’t mean that our stuff is all the same.

For now I’ll just have to do my own research and experiments while reading my cousin’s blog, which is documenting the making of her wedding ceremony (wedding #1) and the Chinese banquet that her parents/in-laws are planning (wedding#2). Fun times.

If you’re planning a big fat Chinese wedding or know of another blogger who is, please do let me know – I’d love to add it to my RSS feed *wink*wink*

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Save with 2 One-Way Tickets

In Food, Money, Travel on September 24, 2009 at 12:41 am

Virgin America's amazingly soothing lighting system
[Photo via Johnny Vulkan/Flickr]

So according to David Grossman at USA Today, it’s actually cheaper to buy two one-way plane tickets than a round-trip flight.  It seems crazy since it pretty much goes against what most people are taught about booking air travel, but the man’s on to something.

This past week, DL and I decided to abandon our original plan to drive to Vegas in October and fly instead. After trying every combination of flight times, airlines and coupon codes on every travel site that I could think of, I too made the surprising realization that I would save more money with two one-way tickets than a round-trip flight (of course, this was also made possible because of good timing and a coupon):

  • Flight #1: Virgin America is having a sale right now FYI. I booked one of the price-slashed flights and added a 20% off promo code from Banana Republic (I’d share it, but it’s one-time use only coupon). TOTAL, including tax & fees: $41.30
  • Flight #2: United isn’t having a sale, but the price was right on Priceline. (Memo to self, avoid flights on Sundays ’cause they’re outrageously expensive!) TOTAL, including tax & fees: $79.60
  • Hypothetical Round Trip Flight: Let’s say, I bought a round trip ticket from Virgin America. TOTAL, including tax & fees: about $135.00 (I can’t remember the exact number at the time and those flights have already jumped in price.)
  • TOTAL SAVINGS: Over $15.00…in Vegas lingo, that could be a buffet breakfast at the Bellagio.

W00T! W00T! W00T!

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The Curious Case of the Missing Headphones

In Life on September 21, 2009 at 7:58 am

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So sometime last week, I lost my headphones/hands-free for my iPhone. It wasn’t in my room and it wasn’t at work. I thought for sure that I had left them behind at someone’s house. Little did I know, there really were in my room…..hidden in the pocket of my white sweatshirt.

Of course,  knowing me, I didn’t realize this until I opened the door to my washer after doing my whites. There they were — all neatly coiled up on top of all my clothes. I tell ya, if an inanimate object could grin and laugh at you for being stupid — then this would be that moment.

Here’s the good (and borderline miraculous) news — they still work and they’re clean. I don’t understand how – ’cause it certainly doesn’t say that they’re waterproof on the box. Plus, I doubt that waterproof means that they’ll survive going in with my whites (i.e., this means they were washed in hot water with color-safe bleach, detergent and softener).  If anything, here’s one point for Apple.

Side-note: I’m a Mac and my brother’s a PC. In recent months, the PC has been out doing the Mac (but that’s another story)….finally, my electronics have proven their worth.

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Wasn’t Expecting You, Marie Claire – Hello, Hello

In Life on September 17, 2009 at 12:02 am

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So there was an unexpected surprise in my mailbox today. No, it was not a stork-delivered baby. What I got was the latest issue of Marie Claire. Now this wouldn’t be so strange and surprising, IF I had a subscription….but since I don’t, this is weird.

Why is Hearst Corporation sending me a magazine that I didn’t buy? Based on my calculations and intuitive deductions, there are four possibilities:

  • Possibility #1: My mom got it for me because she had a coupon code from Amazon.com – it’s not that far fetched when you consider the fact that she’s done it before. This is evident from the large stack of bridal magazines in my room.
  • Possibility #2: I unknowingly bought the subscription myself one day by being trigger happy with my mouse.
  • Possibility #3: Hearst is trying to bolster its readership by giving away its magazines in a last ditch effort to drum up advertising dollars.
  • Possibility #4: A friend of mine had a BOGO promotion for Hearst’s magazines and gave me a free subscription without telling me.

After doing some detective work, some of these possibilities have cleared while others remain a possibility of interest. Check it out:

  • Well, after talking to my mom, possibility #1 is no longer a suspect.
  • I won’t know about possibility #2 until I get bill – so let’s rule that our since it’s unlikely that I got drunk one day and starting buying stuff online.
  • Possibility #3 is unlikely since the only other magazines that come to my house belong to Condé Nast and Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia. I’m pretty sure that they won’t gift subscribers with a competitor’s magazine.
  • It’s likely, but I have no idea who that would be…re: possibility #4

Since this mystery will likely become a cold case, I’m going to give it a rest and read the October issue.

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Wedding Season 2009 – DONE!

In Food, Life, Wedding on September 15, 2009 at 5:57 pm

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I originally wrote this blog post during my lunch period today, but the blogging gods were not shinning on me and I lost my whole post – boo!

This past weekend marked the end of wedding season 2009 for me – in total, I attended 3 weddings and 1 Chinese banquet. It would have been 2 Chinese banquets, but I couldn’t attend banquet #2 because it was the same night as wedding #3.  It was my understanding that June is the most popular month for weddings – but I don’t see it, it’s September for my friends and family. As one cousin put it, “we’re cheap” (i.e., we prefer to save money by booking a not as popular month for our weddings).

Anyhow, long story short – I’ve gained weight, burned a small hole in my pocketbook and upset my stomach with too much alcohol (though my capacity for the “good stuff” is significantly lower than most bloaks, so it’s not that much of a stretch). But…on the up side, I did get a new dress and eat my fill of cake, shaved ice and ice cream…so no complaints there.

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One Year Later, Still Employed

In Job Hunting, Life, Unemployment on July 29, 2009 at 11:24 pm

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As of today, I’ve reached a new milestone – I have officially been employed for over a year by a single company. Since joining the workforce three/four years ago, I have jumped around like you would not believe….most of the time, the “jumping” was not by choice. Let’s recap, shall we?

  • Company 1 (6 months): After starting my first full time job after college, my employer (one of the little guys) decided to merge with a big company (that’s part of an international conglomerate of companies).
  • Company 2 (12 months): Since I had only six months of full-time work experience under my belt, I decided to stick with my new employer (the big company that bought company 1) and give it a try.
  • Company 3 (7 months): After a year, I decided that the big company was not for me and so I found a new employer. Little did I know, I boarded a sinking ship and was laid off a few months later.
  • Company 4 (12 months and counting): After three months of unemployment, I landed my current gig and have been happily employed since. No complaints here – let’s just hope that it stays this way and that I didn’t just horribly jinx myself with this post.

While I was unemployed, I felt like my resume sure looked spotty with all of these employers. I felt it made me look like I couldn’t hold a job or something, which I didn’t like. So my career goal for now is to stay put and bolster my experience and expertise in every way possible. I don’t know about you, but I think that I’ve switched things up enough for the last three years and that some consistency will do me some good.

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Joining the iPhone Club

In Life on July 8, 2009 at 12:35 am

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A year ago, I got my first smartphone – a red BlackBerry Pearl – and started a new job at The Agency. These two events marked the end of my unemployment and my run as a fairly decent blogger. It also signaled a new era of being a Facebook addict and being able to look up an address and/or get directions while in transit from point A to point B (i.e., never lost and a little less late). To sum it up, my life hasn’t been the same since.

However, contrary to popular belief, owning a BB did not seamlessly synchronize my work and personal life together. Instead, I “enjoyed” a lovely game of back-and-forth between two separate calendars, email accounts and address books. You see, shortly after joining The Agency, I soon learned that IT did not support BB phones. This was largely due to the fact that 90 percent of all Agency members already owned or will be buying an iPhone. While I accepted my black sheep phone, I couldn’t help be feel like a fish out of water, especially when all of your clients seem to own iPhones as well.

So cut to today – after a year as a kinda/sorta crackberry addict – I caved to unspoken social/industry peer pressure and joined the iPhone club. It’s just been a few days and first big improvement is the return of music to my life. (FYI, I haven’t owned an MP3 player since my iPhone died something in 2006 and was never replaced). As for the infamous apps, I am very excited about creating faux Asian sticker pics via Puri! and talking to my friends in China on the QQ app. Let’s just see if this WordPress app does anything to improve my blogging responsibilities.

Here it is…ta-da!

iPhone 3G S

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My Life List Revealed

In Life, Quarter-Life Crisis on June 28, 2009 at 9:38 am

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Guess I can check this off now – just finished writing my inital life list of things that I want to do. There’s only 100 things on the list and some of them are things that I have already done (for record keeping purposes), but hopefully, this list will continue to grow over time.

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Euphemisms in the Sex Industry

In News on June 23, 2009 at 10:32 pm

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Just watched a TV documentary on high-end prostitution on CNBC called “Dirty Money.” While it was kinda interesting, it bothered me. I didn’t like the euphemisms that were used like “service provider” and “therapy session.” I especially didn’t like the “explanations” for why high-powered men hire prostitutes such as doing it for the thrill and the need to connect/confide with someone because their too proud to tell their secrets to their wives. Even more, looking at the whole “industry” as a “business” seemed to legitimize it as being okay, which just didn’t sit well with me. Call me old fashioned, but IMO….a whore is a whore and cheating is cheating.

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Mid-Year Review 2009

In Life, Quarter-Life Crisis on June 23, 2009 at 12:16 am

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So back in January, I set my goals for 2009.….basically a laundry list of resolutions. Now that June is almost over, I think it’s about time to check in and see how well I am doing.

  1. Create a life list – In Progress; This is not a good sign considering that I am almost one year closer to hitting 30. Though I will say, that I was quite impressed by the list created by Ben Huh (i.e., the Asian guy behind I Can Has Cheezburger? and FAIL Blog among others). Maybe this will inspire me to get this together.
  2. Become a better blogger – In Progress; If I don’t turn this around, I just might fail at this one. Blogger is a commitment that I am definitely struggling with right now.
  3. Stay employed – Met; Things are going well at The Agency. Let’s keep it that way for the next six months.
  4. Live long and thrive – In Progress; Paid for a two-year membership to 24 Hour Fitness via Costco. Only cost me $300 bucks and with my $150 health insurance reimbursement, this means that I’m only paying $6.25 a month. W00T! As for the actual exercise part, I am trying to go at least once a week (sometimes once a month). Other fitness efforts include taking stairs and walking home (as opposed to having someone pick me up from the bus stop. This will continue to be a work in progress, no doubt about that. As for food, I need to kick this fried food habit….but what can I say, when the world’s got me down, nothing is more satisfying then french fries and chicken mcnuggets.
  5. A pirate’s life for me – On Hold; I just ain’t got no time and no taste to figure out what to download these days. So far, my musical tastes have been inspired by commercials, namely the Bacardi and Apple commercials.
  6. Budget like a rock star – On Hold; Not exactly something that I want or should be putting on hold, but to be really honest, I really am not counting my pennies as strictly as I should. No good, Daisy. No good. This needs to turn around fast.
  7. Find a hobby or a social group – In Progress; While I don’t exactly want to count knitting during my commute as a hobby, there has got be a better way to become social. I will say that I have been going to more networking events lately, but there’s only so much alcohol that I can drink (no joke, this would be one glass of wine or one bottle of beer per night).
  8. Become an early riser - In Progress; I woke up at 5 a.m. once and went to the gym. It messed me up for the rest of the week and I could not wake up before 6:30 a.m. again. While early, it’s not early enough. I just need to stop going to bed at 1 a.m. like I am doing tonight. Hurry up Daisy and go to bed!
  9. Organize - In Progress; Okay, so I have confession….I have an obsession for home decor, clean up and organization shows a la HGTV. Before and after shots are like eye candy to me….just too bad that I have such a hard time transferring what I see on TV to real life. I just don’t have the time or energy to be a maker in the truest sense.

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Change is in order….

In Life on June 21, 2009 at 11:33 pm

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My 25th year is almost at an end. All in all, my quarter life crisis has been crazy, maddening and tiring……just a bit too overwhelming to relive by writing about it. That said, it should come as no surprise that this blog has become stagnant. While many things worth blogging about have happened in the last three months or so, I have been just too overwhelmed — predominately because of work — to write a single word.

Now, just to be clear, I have no intention of abandoning this blog; however, changes need to be made to the format, the style and the topics in order for me to feel more compelled to write at night. As you may recall, I’ve been back at The Agency for almost a year now…..agency life is just not conducive to blogging.  Even if your agency is known for being social media savvy…..there’s something about staring at a computer screen all day while writing emails, press releases, pitches, etc. that just sucks all the writing energy you have available in a single day. Now while I brainstorm on how to shorten the writing style, increase my posts and determine definitive topic, enjoy this song by Matt and Kim. FYI, it’s the one from the Bacardi commercial. It’s called “Daylight” and it’s great!

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PostSecret Exhibit

In Arts, Life on April 25, 2009 at 3:19 pm

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So while I am sick, I thought I might as well catch up on some blogging. Two weekends ago, I went to the PostSecret International Art Exhibit at the Bedford Gallery in Walnut Creek, CA.

My cousin is a big fan of the site (so am I but it’s not on my RSS feed or nothing). After an hour of reading through all the postcards and envelopes, I must say that I felt rather depressed. Most of the ones on display are the really, really, REALLY sad ones…..

Still, I recommend everyone to go see this exhibit if it comes to your town. It’s very thought-provoking and touching.

I was surprised though that they didn’t have the coffee table books for sale, but I guess it’s because it was the last day of the exhibit. I sure do wish that I had known about it earlier so that I could have seen Frank Warren speak. Oh wells…

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Three Cheers for Strep Throat!

In Life on April 25, 2009 at 2:54 pm

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Will the contagious individual who infected me with strep throat please stand up? I’ve narrowed it down to a couple possibilities, but since both are work-related, I’m going to keep my mouth shut.

For those of you who haven’t figured it out, I have strep throat, which for most of this week, I thought it was weather related symptoms. On Monday and Tuesday, it was 90 degrees and humid. On Wednesday, it was 50 degrees and misty. So in my foolishness, I figured that my headache must be because of the heat, my sore throat must have been because of all the water I drank because of the heat, and my chills must have been because I didn’t dress warmly enough on Wednesday (but who can blame me, I figured it should have been in the 90s or 80s). Little did I know, I was actually sick. Didn’t really realize it until I took my temperature and saw that it was 101 degrees. wOOt!

Since my temperature didn’t go down by much the next morning, I took a sick day – oh yipee (not really)!

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Knitting A Sweater (Part 1)

In Arts, Life, Projects on February 22, 2009 at 12:43 am

Natalie Dee
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Ever since I got a cool book on knitting for beginners from my former roommate three Christmases ago, I have been trying to teach myself to knit. I commandeered my mom’s stash of needles, yarns and other miscellaneous knitting tools and started project after project, many of which remain incomplete. Why? Knitting is a hard craft to learn when you’ve been trained to crochet for most of your life. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty details, but basically, I had such a hard time trying to maneuver two needles and made many mistakes along the way that I would give up, try again, give up and try again.

This week, I decided to try again. I am disassembling a crochet sweater that I tried to make for DL (see below for the back story on that fiasco), and am making a knit, sleeveless sweater for myself. This has become my commuter project. So far, so good. The right side of my brain is overjoyed that it’s being put to use, while the left side is enjoying the break. We’ll see how long this lasts…

Back-story on DL’s Sweater:
So last year, I decided to make a sweater for my boyfriend. It sounds sweet, but it was more of a sweat and tears project, if you ask me. After spending a few days on deciding whether to knit or crochet it (no doubt, knitting works much better for clothing; however, I just work faster with a crochet needle), I took the easy way out and choose crochet. This was the first of many critical mistakes in making this doomed project. Long story short, the almost-finished sweater weighs about 20lbs and the sleeves extend four inches form DL’s fingertips. After he tried it on the first time, I quickly came to terms with the fact that it looked horrible and that he would never wear it. So for about a year, it sat in my unfinished project pile. This is what I learned and what I hope to avoid this time around:

  1. Even if you find a pattern, don’t crochet sweaters. The finished product usually looks weird.
  2. Always check your gauge!
  3. Don’t knit during a heat wave. Your project will feel like blanket and you will be miserable.
  4. Measure as you go, not when the project is almost done!

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Thoughts on Twestival SF

In Arts, Life, Travel on February 13, 2009 at 2:01 am

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So I attended the Twestival in San Francisco this evening with @flackette and @tommyktse. In case you didn’t get the memo, this even was a worldwide fundraiser for charity:water. There were about 175 participating cities, in which the Twitter communities in each community would host a party. Proceeds from the entry fees are to be donated to a nonprofit dedicated to providing clean water to developing countries. Here’s a short blurb about the Twestivals on CNET’s Webware blog.

While I thought the event was a very worthwhile cause, I couldn’t help but leave Twestival SF with some thoughts on the pros and cons of the event.

Let’s start with the pros. I am glad that the Twestival organizers chose a real charity with a cause worth raising awareness for rather than something fluffy. The free t-shirt and reusable bag were great quality swag. The cupcakes by teeny cake were delicious and pretty! Props to the sponsors who made that happen.

….and in terms of the cons, I felt that the organizers were not as prepared as they should have been. I got to Paradise Lounge around 6:30pm. The event was suppose to start at 6:00pm, but I stood out in the cold for a while since “they weren’t ready yet.” Lame. In terms of the setup, I thought that there should have been more focus on the charity (e.g. provide materials, run slide shows, etc.). It just seemed like a regular networking event than anything else, though nothing wrong with that. Also, maybe it was just me, but I thought that there wasn’t a whole lot of mingling at this event. Most of the Tweeters kept to themselves and the groups that they came with. Though, it wasn’t a total loss, since I did meet some cool people this evening.

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A Weekend with Coraline

In Arts, Life, Movies on February 9, 2009 at 12:35 am

Magic Garden, originally uploaded by Musings and Wanderings.

I saw Coraline on Saturday with my little brother and was amazed! Not only was the story pretty unique, the movie was so intricate and beautiful to look at. It was even more exciting to see my old elementary/middle/high school friend’s name in the credits.

The following day, I went to the Cartoon Art Museum in San Francisco to look at the special Art of Coraline exhibit. Here’s a couple of interesting factoids about the movie:

  • The gray sweater that Coraline wears (the one covered in glow in the dark stars) was hand knitted using tiny needles, that looked like they were the size of sewing needles.
  • The cherry blossoms in the magic garden were made of popcorn.

If you haven’t seen this movie, you should. Just be advised, this is not a movie for young children, especially if they are easily frighten…..

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Declaration of Romantic Intent

In Funny on February 8, 2009 at 3:28 am

Still looking for a “special” Valentine’s Day card for your sweetheart or crush? As of right now, you still have 6 days left to look. But just in case you get desperate, here’s a nifty alternative….in a stoic and almost strangely professional kind of way. What better way to express yourself than with a fill-in-the-blank memo. Just print, fill it out accordingly and send it along to the one that you love.

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25 Random Things About Daisy

In Life on February 7, 2009 at 11:12 am

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Rules: Once you’ve been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it’s because I want to know more about you. (To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, paste these instructions in the body of the note, type your 25 random things, tag 25 people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.)

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Tragic, true story: I decided to jump on the 25 random things bandwagon on Facebook this past Wednesday. As I had just finished random factoid #15, I hit something on my computer and everything just disappeared. If I loose this version too, I am just not going to do it at all.

1. I’ve raised a lot pets. Right now, I have two cats (Dimmy and Dolby) and a dog (Wolfy, who lives with my mom and dad now). Before them, I had two ducks (Donald and Dorothy Jane), four rabbits (Swifty, Ruby, Blackie and Chuby) and a countless number of goldfish.

2. I joined my high school’s diving team because it was the only sport that didn’t require me to run or try out. There, on the 1-meter springboard, I learned my true tolerance for pain – thanks to the many flops it took to learn my prerequisite six dives for competition. The greatest divers in the world are Chinese, but I most certainly am not one of them.

3. My focus of study in college was rather unique to UC Berkeley. I graduated with a degree in Development Studies (i.e. the study of developing countries and why they are the way they are) and Environmental Economics and Policy (i.e. how to calculate the best time to cut down a tree that will maximize the ROI for its wood).

4. There is a two-day (or three-day, if you consider the 16 hour time difference between China and the U.S.) age difference between me and my boyfriend. What can I say, older men creep me out and younger guys make me think of my little brother.

5. All through college, I practiced and performed Chinese dance. Contrary to popular belief, there is more to it than ribbons and handkerchiefs. China has 56 ethnic groups, with the majority being the Han and the minority including Miao, Uighur, Mongolian and Dai.

6. My Chinese dance teacher was a former instructor at the Beijing Dance Academy where he taught Zhang Ziyi (the girl from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon) before she pursued film. As his student, she won 1st place in a national competition.

7. Rather than selling cookies with the girl scouts, I decided to be a 4H-er where I learned how to be a farmer. However, I showed ducks and rabbits at the county fair, because you don’t have to sell them for meat afterwards like you do with pigs, lambs or cows.

8. I once defeated my gamer brother at Street Fighter on the Super Nintendo three times in a row as Chung Li. It was a sweet victory that I will never let him live down, especially when you consider the fact that I was just button mashing.

9. I taught my brother how to play chess when he was maybe 5 or 6 years old. After defeating him during the tutorial game, I was never able to win another game against him again until last year. Clearly, I have no talent in the art of war.

10. One day, I would like to travel across China and ride on the train from Beijing to Tibet.

11. I was once cast in a local production of Flower Drum Song. As part of the ensemble, I played one of six school children. There is no doubt in my mind that I was made to play this part because of my height and youthful looks. The other five school children were ages 8-11 while I was 16 at the time.

12. I have a pen pal who lives in China. We have been writing to each other since 1998 beginning with letters, then email and now IM. I met and spoke with him in person for the first time this past January.

13. My favorite type of salad dressing is honey mustard. In my personal opinion, I think that MacDonald makes the best honey mustard and that it is most delicious when eaten with Chicken McNuggets and/or french fries!

14. I love to learn new languages. I just don’t have any talent for becoming fluent. So far, I have been most successful with Mandarin as opposed to French, Korean and Japanese, but even then I still really suck at it. One day, I hope to be able to understand Shanghainese.

15. I love the flying trapeze! If I could choose an alternative career, I would like to try my hand at the circus.

16. Whenever I am forced to watch horror movies, I prefer to watch them in the dark and without my glasses. If I can’t make myself fall asleep, the curiosity in me will ask a million questions about what just happened since I can see too clearly.

17. I inherited the no-tolerance-for-alcohol gene from the Kong-side of the family. Case in point: One new year’s eve, a single shot of liquor completely shut downed my body where I became blind, unable to walk, vomited and could barely stand up. Five years later, I am proud to say that I can drink one bottle of beer by myself over several hours.

18. The only downside of having a name like “Daisy” is the fact that it is a popular name for pets such as dogs, cats and cows. My high school friend’s dog was named Daisy and apparently my cousin’s cat is named Daisy.

19. In a former life (when I had unlimited free time), I was a crafter. I could sew, crochet and work a glue gun like no body’s business. Sometimes, in my darkest moments of work related stress, I reminisce about using the left side of my brain to make something cool.

20. My daycare center growing up was a zoo. As one of the kids that loved animals, I got the “privilege” of cleaning cages and feeding the mice, rats, hamster, rabbit, chinchilla, chickens, ducks, pot-belly pig, parakeets, guinea pig and goldfish.

21. As a fundraiser, my elementary school made me sell the “world’s finest chocolates” to my family, friends and neighbors. At the age of 11, I quickly realized that I was no longer cute enough to be an effective salesperson. Being a clever kid, I sent my brother, who was 8 at the time, to work. Within an hour, all the chocolates were sold.

22. Having attended a Catholic elementary, middle and high school where uniforms were required (that would be 13 years of my life), I sometimes miss wearing a uniform. Getting ready in the morning was so much simpler.

23. I am actually very knowledgeable about the video game industry despite the fact that I am not much of a gamer. For example, I actually get some of the jokes on Penny Arcade and know what a RROD is. This is thanks to the company that I keep.

24. For my 13th birthday, my dad bought me a 10-speed bike (i.e. an adult bike). It was a little too tall for me at the time (i.e. I couldn’t put my feet down when I sat on the bike. I was only able to scrap the floor with the tips of my toes). My dad figured that I would grow into it. Little did we both know, I stopped growing that year.

25. At one point, I was a closet Twilighter, though most fan girls would stone me for heresy. I read everything about Twilight on Wikipedia first, then watched the movie, then read book one and then re-read the plot summaries for the rest of the books.

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9 Goals for 2009

In Life on January 26, 2009 at 12:09 am

Natalie Deewww.nataliedee.com

As some of you may know, I’ll just got back from a two week vacation in Hong Kong and China. Yes, if you are wondering, it was a great trip. I’ll write more on that later, but first to the matter at hand.

I have been working on this New Year’s post for about a month now. Originally, I wanted to set my personal goals before crossing the pacific and saying goodbye to 2008. Needless to say, that did not happen. But with Obama taking office this week and Chinese New Year around the corner, it seems appropriate that I finish writing my resolutions now. Here they are:

  1. Create a life list (aka a list of things to do before I get married and have kids) – After reading the suggested list on Marc and Angel, I decided to create my own life list (more like a 5 year plan to get myself through the quarter life crisis I am having).
  2. Become a better blogger – True to form, after returning to agency life, I have become less and less inclined to blog. This is largely due to the fact that after spending 8-10 hours in front of a computer screen writing something, the last thing that I want to do when I go home is look at a laptop screen and blog. With the month(s) long gaps between posts, blogging has obviously taken a back seat to TV, the gym, dinner and my cats.  There must be a middle ground, where I can blog and have better work-life balance, and I aim to find it.
  3. Stay employed – 2006 and 2007 was the years of jumping ship and mass layoffs, respectively. My goal is to be happy with my working situation, excel & grow and stay employed for the whole year. Let’s just hope that fate doesn’t throw another curve ball my way, but if it does, c’est la vie.
  4. Live long and thrive – This doesn’t have anything to do with Kaiser Permanente, but it is related to my health and well being. It’s no secret that since graduation (2 years ago), I have adopted a very sedentary lifestyle and effects have slowly taken its toll. I did the unthinkable last month and joined a gym to counteract my downward spiral. Now comes the hard part – keep on going to the gym regularly and staying there long enough to actually get a work out.
  5. A pirate’s life for me – If I do nothing else this year, I sure hope that I put some effort in rebuilding my music collection. It’s been a two years since my last computer failure (which wiped out my entire C drive and everything near and dear to me on it). I think it’s time for me to start listening to my own music.
  6. Budget like a rock star – I used to work with a girl who used to work as an accountant for The Killers and other bands. While that would seem exciting, I should put some effort into managing my own personal fianances. Not that I am in debt or anything, but I should learn to be proactive about this stuff.
  7. Find a hobby or a social group – What I miss most about college is the social activities and clubs. I’ve been shopping for a professional group to join, but really, does everything have to be so work focused? It sure would be nice to find some thing else to do that I can commit to doing.
  8. Become an early riser - I have traditionally thrived and have done my best work at night. It’s not that I am just skilled at burning the midnight oil, I just prefer the silent and calmer environment. However, this lifestyle is not possible when you are a member of the 9am-5pm workforce. I am not 16 anymore and can’t operate with 5-6 hours of sleep, 5 out 7 days a week. Plus, the extra long naps on the weekends are just depleting my free time away from work. So to rectify all of this, I am hoping that this is the year that I turn myself into an early bird.
  9. Organize - While I don’t consider myself to be entirely disheveled and continually confused, I do think that I could do better at organizing my calendar, contacts, to-do lists and priorities. Maybe the processes from work are seeping into my personal life or maybe I am just nostalgic for better, more structured days.

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